Friday, April 23, 2010

Betrayal


Has anyone ever betrayed you? Maybe you told a friend a story that no one else could know besides them but they still told someone else. Did you lose trust in them? That's what betrayal is, betrayal can be very upsetting. Have you ever thought about you being the betrayer? Maybe you did something that your friend asked you not to do. That person probably lost their trust in you. Betrayal is mainly about trust and losing trust. When you betray someone you have to have their trust first. When someone betrays you they have also lost your trust, most likely. Being betrayed can be very hurtful. Being betrayed is like when someone you are close to and trust does something that was not necessary or you asked them not to. One example of betrayal is like when best friends do something to hurt each other. For example I know one person who was betrayed by their best friend. One person told their best friend a secret. this person had trust in their best friend that she wouldn't tell anymore he secret. The next day the best friend told some of their other friends what the secret was. Now a lot of people knew that persons secret. This was not right of the friend to tell others this secret. This is one way someone I know was betrayed. After this incident the person with the secret was very careful in who she told certain things to. Even if the freind didn't tell people the secret to hurt her friend on purpose it still hurt that person. They may still be friends after that but after something doing something like that, intentional or not, someone has lost a little trust in you.

1 comment:

  1. Betrayal is the hardest thing to get over. And the hardest to understand.
    You trust in the ones you love and care for to the right thing.
    We can never really know who will betray us or why, who can we really trust?
    We have to alway remember its hard and hurtful when we are betrayed by those we care about,
    but we need to keep in our hearts and minds that People we care for and love will hurt us but we need to be forgiving.
    We need to remember everyone makes Mistakes.. Everyone is Weak sometime......... Forgiveness is harder then we think...... Forgiveness is not for the person thats betrayed us necessarily............
    Its For US
    If we have a true forgiving heart we will be OK !!

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